dognovel Chapter 1049 I count to 3
Chapter 1049 I count to 3
Chapter 1049 I Count to Three
"Ji Weidong is leaving?"
As soon as she entered the house, Gu Ning came down from upstairs combing her hair and asked Li Xuewu who was changing his shoes.
Li Xuewu looked back at her and nodded, "Yes, he said that he has finished his work in the capital."
After changing her shoes, she looked upstairs and asked with a smile, "Is my son asleep?"
"Go to bed early, what time is it?"
Gu Ning glanced at him and said, "Ji Weidong sent something here this afternoon. I told you not to accept it when you were not at home, so he dropped the thing off and left."
"That's right, this guy is really something!"
Qin Jingru came out of the room, handed the bag in her hand to Han Jiankun, and complained: "He came in and said he was here to give a gift, teased Li Shu for a while, and left without even drinking any water."
"He's just like that, he's too cunning"
Li Xuewu smiled and nodded to her, saying: "He is not as honest as us. He only does those useless things and treats them as serious matters."
I opened the door to the room on the first floor and looked in. Li Shu was lying on the bed, sleeping soundly, almost sniffling.
"We were playing at night and smoke came out. We came back after dark, but he still refused to stop and made sand everywhere. I almost got beaten."
Qin Jingru said jokingly, looked inside the door that Li Xuewu opened, and said, "Please carry her upstairs later. I can't hold her anymore."
"He's growing so fast, he's bigger than most children his age."
Han Jiankun loved Li Shu the most and often played with her here. Now he also said something with a smile.
Li Xuewu nodded to the couple and said, "Go back quickly, it's quite late. Jingru finally made the trip back and I delayed her."
"It's okay, I'll go back when I have time."
Qin Jingru changed her shoes at the door, put on a scarf and said, "It's not far. If it wasn't dark, I would have thought of riding my bike back by myself."
"Well, leader, let's go back."
Han Jiankun said something to Li Xuewu, nodded to Gu Ning, and then went out with Qin Jingru.
Li Xuewu accompanied them to the door and watched them push the cart out of the gate and towards the street corner before returning to the house.
Since the weather got warmer, Han Jiankun no longer drove home. Even in the winter when it snowed, he would only drive when the road was slippery or the weather was bad.
Basically, they ride bicycles to and from get off work, and the couple's shifts are perfectly timed.
"What did Ji Weidong send?"
After Li Xuewu returned to the house, he saw Gu Ning sitting in front of the fireplace drinking water, so he walked over and asked.
Gu Ning pointed to the boxes in the corner and said helplessly: "There are two large boxes of toys, and they said that each person should have one big box and one small box."
“Wow! Did you see that?”
Li Xuewu smiled and gestured: "This is a gift! It touches my heart!"
"Well, it touched Li Shu's heart!"
Gu Ning glanced at him with amusement and said with pursed lips: "Ji Weidong teased her, saying uncle is this good and uncle is that good, and she almost got taken away by someone."
"That's impossible, my daughter is very smart"
Li Xuewu sat next to his wife, leaned back on the sofa, and said: "If we talk about cunningness, this child is almost as smart as a six or seven-year-old."
"You can only fool her once. If she finds out, you won't be obedient next time."
I don’t know if it’s because of her good development, good genes, or because there are many people in her family who interact with her more and tease her more.
Li Shu's intelligence developed very quickly. She could not learn Qin Jingru's ancient poems by reciting them to her, but she could learn them quickly if she taught her to make jokes.
Li Xuewu sometimes thought that his daughter looked like a porcelain doll now. When she grew up, her mixed-race features would become more obvious.
Just look at her, a mixed-race girl who speaks a mixture of Beijing dialect and Northeastern dialect. If people don’t know her, they would think she is a mixed-race girl from Northeast China and Beijing.
I learned to speak Northeastern dialect from the old lady, and then I learned Beijing dialect from others.
Especially when playing in the courtyard, she would listen and learn when people in that courtyard greeted and chatted.
You see, she started speaking seriously late, but she started learning to talk very early.
They may even have memories of learning to speak as soon as they learn to crawl.
"I'm going to work tomorrow. You should send Li Shu to her mother's house tomorrow morning. Jingru can't take care of her alone."
Gu Ning poured another cup of hot water for Li Xuewu and reminded him: "Remember to pick her up in the evening. She might have been out having fun and not even coming home."
"Okay, I'll keep it in mind. I'll tell Jiankun tomorrow morning and ask him to remind me."
Li Xuewu lay on his back, pinched the bridge of his nose and said, "I have talked to Ji Weidong and asked him to buy a refrigerator for me from Gangcheng when he returns."
"Refrigerator? Why buy it?" Gu Ning looked back at him with a cup of water in his hand and asked, "Why did you come all the way here to buy it? How are you going to get it back?"
"Don't worry about it, shipping cargo ships are convenient."
Li Xuewu raised his hand and placed it on Gu Ning's shoulder, smiling and saying: "If it's really just for leftovers, just to have a bite of cold food in the summer, I won't bother with it. It's for the children."
Seeing his wife's surprised look, he raised his eyebrows and said, "There are always times when it's inconvenient for you, right? Going to surgery, sitting in the clinic, making house calls, right?"
"You take care of the child, and Qin Jingru takes care of you. No matter how close you are to home, there will always be times when you can't feed your child. It is necessary to have milk at home."
Li Xuewu explained: "When you are empty, leave a bottle of milk in the refrigerator. If it is inconvenient for Qin Jingru to find you, or if you are not convenient, warm it up for emergency."
“You are so amazing—!”
Gu Ning understood. This person had been unwilling to buy expensive items for his home before, and even gave away the refrigerator that was given by others.
Now, just to feed his son, he has to go to great lengths to buy a refrigerator from Hong Kong.
Should we say that he sticks to his principles, or should we say that he messes around?
Gu Ning curled the corners of his mouth and looked at him, not knowing what to say.
Li Xuewu sat up straight, leaned over and kissed her, saying: "I can't bear to do anything for myself, but I can't bear to do anything for you and the child."
"What are you going to do?" Gu Ning dodged and looked at him suspiciously, as if guarding against a thief.
Li Xuewu said with a smile: "The moon is high in the sky, the night is quiet, and the children are asleep. What do you think we should do?"
"I went upstairs—"
Gu Ning dodged him, stood up and walked quickly upstairs, while reminding: "Take a shower first, then carry Li Shu up, be careful to be gentle."
"Won't you wait for me?"
Li Xuewu chased after his wife and said something with a smile, which made Gu Ning walk even faster, as if he was being chased by a dog.
Seeing his wife like this, he also found it funny and drank the hot water from the cup on the coffee table.
After putting out the fire in the fireplace and taking a shower in the bathroom on the first floor, he went into the room, carried Li Shu upstairs.
No wonder Qin Jingru said she could hardly hold her anymore. She hadn’t held her for a few days, and when she held her, she felt as heavy as thirty kilograms.
Nowadays, whose baby less than two weeks old weighs thirty kilograms? It must be Li Shu.
It grows big and fast, and can also eat eggs, milk, and complementary foods.
He complains that others feed him too slowly, so he insists on using a small spoon to eat. He basically doesn't waste anything and is a good eater, sleeper and operator.
Looking at his daughter's sleeping face, Li Xuewu was also imagining what kind of girl she would be in the future.
Quiet? It seems not relevant...
Lively? Seems unsatisfied...
Naughty? It seems a bit...
No matter what kind of personality the girl has, Li Xuewu hopes that she can grow up happily and healthily.
The guest room was cleaned up and given to Li Shu, which might be the room for one of the two siblings in the future.
There are only four rooms in the house, and we can almost use them all. We can just live in whatever is convenient for us.
When Gu Ning's belly was too big and it was inconvenient for her to go up and down the stairs, they even lived in the room on the first floor which Li Shu now used as a toy room.
The furnishings in the guest room on the second floor were not moved, only a children's bed was placed next to the bed.
Thanks to grandma's dexterity, Li Xuewu only described it once and the crib and children's bed were ready.
Even the guardrails around the seat have been cleverly designed so that children will not be pinched or their legs bent.
Even if Li Shu was very restless when sleeping, she wouldn't fall down while sleeping in it.
Of course, she has to be taken out of the crib in the morning, otherwise the little girl will turn over on her own.
Qin Jingru said she didn't know how she learned it, but now she can do somersaults on the bed or on the floor by herself.
It's not the somersaults in martial arts or acrobatics, but the kind where kids put their heads on the ground and stick their butts out and twist them.
It's okay to play on the floor, just keep an eye on her and she doesn't do anything dangerous that might hurt her neck.
But if I roll over in bed and fall to the ground, I will cry loudly.
Hitting the back of the head can be life-threatening or affect intellectual development.
So the sand pit in the guest room on the first floor is prepared to prevent this.
Li Xuewu and Gu Ning both remembered that when they woke up in the morning, the first thing they would do was go to Li Shu's room to see if she was awake.
As long as you play late at night, you can get enough sleep in the morning. If you go to bed early, you'll see, you can get up at four o'clock.
As a father, there is no reason to complain. When it is time to get up and take care of the children, he has to do it even if he is busy and flustered. Otherwise, Gu Ning will have to work alone and it will take him a whole morning to finish.
Just one person washing the face and the other changing the pajamas can make people feel very embarrassed. The couple are happy when they look at the child when they go to bed at night, but want to cry when they look at the child when they wake up in the morning.
This is also due to the fact that Qin Jingru has been working hard here and coming to help early. If she had met someone who was not capable enough, she would have been very angry.
It has to be said that Li Xuewu is capable, has the conditions to select and employ people, and has the conditions to meet other people's needs.
I successfully put my daughter into the crib, covered her with a small quilt, and tiptoed out.
He rubbed his hands like a thief who had succeeded, and walked towards the master bedroom with a wicked smile.
Looking at the study and small living room where the lights were turned off, and the closed door of the master bedroom.
He was stunned for a moment, then rolled his eyes, tentatively walked to the door and pulled the doorknob.
Sure enough, it was locked by Gu Ning!
How shameless! Husband and wife are one body. They have not been together for several months because of having a child. Now they want to shut him out!
"Ahem—!"
Li Xuewu coughed lightly, afraid of waking up his son. The little guy's loud voice might even wake up Li Shu next door.
So even if you want to enter the house, you have to be very careful and not make any loud noise.
"Wife——Gu Ning——"
"Ahem - let me in."
Li Xuewu stood at the door and whispered a few words, then listened and heard no movement from inside.
Fell asleep?
impossible!
Absolutely impossible!
He dared to bet that Gu Ning was not asleep and must be listening to his movements!
Moreover, it is very likely that she is smiling.
Just bet on a guaranteed monthly ticket!
"Wife, I'm back—"
Li Xuewu knocked on the door gently and said, "It's really cold outside, please let me in, or I'll catch a cold~"
After he said this, not only did Gu Ning in the room not believe it, but he himself didn't take it seriously.
The villa burned five tons of coal and a large cart of wood a year. They were afraid that Gu Ning would catch a cold during her confinement, so she didn't even feel cold wearing a vest in the house.
That is to say, the child has finished his menstrual period and the weather outside is warmer, so the fever is not so severe.
But at this moment in the evening, with the curtains drawn and wearing shorts in the room, I didn't feel cold at all, but rather a little hot.
He was just teasing Gu Ning on purpose, just trying to find something to talk about, and he was afraid that the other party would notice something.
Because the other party insisted on not opening the door and pretended to be asleep, Li Xuewu prepared to carry out a secret operation on the door and then a surprise operation on her.
Just think about it, who is he?
He is so calculating that he can even figure out where to bury people after they die. How can such a small matter stump him?
Since he wanted to do something bad, he dared to tease Gu Ning blatantly downstairs. How could he not be fully prepared?
"Wife, are you asleep?"
Li Xuewu pulled out a key from under the phonograph while calling out in a hollow voice, confusing Gu Ning in the room.
When he tiptoed back to the door and put the key in the lock, he called out again: "Wife - it's cold outside, I have to go inside and sleep -"
click-
Li Xuewu unlocked the door, smiled triumphantly, then turned the doorknob with a wicked grin and was about to go in.
But who would have thought that the door handle would not open no matter how hard I turned it, as if there was a spring.
Li Xuewu knew why. He said to the crack in the door with a smile: "Young lady! You can't escape! Just obey me, Old Pig!"
"no--!"
Gu Ning's shy voice came from inside, and she whispered, "I have to go to work tomorrow!"
She clearly locked the door and checked the door keys. There were only three keys, and she put them all away.
Do you dare to believe it? !
In order to do bad things, this bad guy secretly made a key!
What a leisurely time!
She had heard Li Xuewu coming upstairs a long time ago and had been waiting on the bed.
When she heard him tentatively opening the door, she was still grinning, especially when the other party was negotiating to open the door, she laughed even more happily and almost couldn't hold it in.
He covered his mouth with the quilt and tried hard not to laugh out loud.
But when she saw the bad guy said it twice, she felt something was wrong. Based on her understanding of Li Xuewu, this guy would definitely not make useless temptations.
Especially when you are sure that she will not open the door, why would you keep negotiating with her to open the door?
The excuses and rhetoric were so perfunctory and repetitive that it sounded problematic.
She got out of bed quietly, stood at the door and listened. There was a metallic clicking sound. Especially when he asked her again, she knew that the bad guy still had a key in his hand.
You are playing tricks on me here, pretending to build a plank road, but secretly attacking Chencang! How cunning!
How could this bad guy be so cunning!
It would be fine if it was used in the right place, but it's ridiculous that even something like this requires planning!
"What the hell are you talking about!"
Li Xuewu was holding the door handle at the door, but he didn't dare to turn it hard for fear of hurting her wrist.
He laughed and said, "Who said you can't go to work? I support your work and career the most. We are a couple and we should make progress together!"
"Then let me have a good rest. I have to get up early tomorrow morning—"
Gu Ning said half seriously and half negotiatingly: "You can't let me make a fool of myself on my first day at work. I'll be listless and have to feed the baby at night. I won't have time."
"Don't worry! I didn't say anything to you!"
Li Xuewu discussed: "I'm just going back to my room to sleep. We have to sleep, right?"
"Really? You just slept?"
Gu Ning pressed against the crack of the door and confirmed: "You must keep your word, it's just sleeping!"
"Of course, of course! Of course I keep my word, I never lie or cheat anyone!"
Li Xuewu assured solemnly: "I'm just going back to my room to sleep. I won't disturb your rest. I promise!"
"I'm telling you..."
Gu Ning hesitated and let go of the doorknob. He looked at Li Xuewu who opened the door and said seriously, "I have to get up once tonight, and I have to get up early tomorrow morning to clean up. I have a whole day of adapting to work tomorrow."
"How could I not know——!"
Li Xuewu smiled like a big bad wolf, hugged her, then let go of her hand and said: "I understand you the most. I will be with you at night and I will help you tomorrow morning. I will never let you suffer alone."
He coaxed Gu Ning to go back, helped her onto the bed, stretched out the quilt, and then went to the tea table at the door and poured in two cups of hot water.
"Why are you pouring water?"
Gu Ning's nerves, which had just relaxed, became alert again because of his action of pouring water.
I just leaned against the head of the bed and looked at him, watching him put two glasses of water on the bedside table.
"It's spring, and I'm hot-tempered. I just drank a large glass of water. I'm afraid I'll get thirsty at night and it'll be troublesome to get up."
As he said this, he placed the thermos on the bedside table, as if that was the case.
Gu Ning just watched him packing with suspicion until he started to take off his pajamas.
"What are you going to do?"
Gu Ning once again asked cautiously: "Why do you have to take off your pajamas before sleeping?"
"It's hot, don't you feel it?"
Li Xuewu sat on the bed normally, bare-chested and took off his pajamas, and said helplessly: "It's spring, the fire is strong, the blood is hot, I'm afraid of kicking off the quilt at night, I want to sleep more comfortably if it's cooler."
Listening to his explanation, Gu Ning didn't believe it. This man was more careful about maintaining his health than the previous emperors. He didn't eat cold food, hot food, or stimulating food. He stopped drinking and quit smoking.
Now listen to what he said. He actually takes off his pajamas before going to bed at night.
He used to not be able to close his eyes unless he had something covering his shoulders and belly button, for he was afraid of getting his bones and stomach cold.
If I tell her this now, will she believe it?
Believe it or not, Li Xuewu had already crawled into the bed, looked at her suspiciously and asked, "Aren't you hot?"
“Not hot—”
Gu Ning shook his head firmly and said, "I won't take off my pajamas to sleep, don't even think about it."
"Who asked you this?"
Li Xuewu curled his lips seriously, lay on the pillow, turned off the desk lamp on his side, and said, "It's time to go to bed, hug my wife and go to sleep."
"Wait a minute—!"
As soon as Gu Ning lay down, he hugged her in his arms. With a curled mouth, he asked, "What did you just promise me?"
"Sleeping? What's wrong?"
Li Xuewu hugged her and asked in surprise: "Isn't this okay? I always hug you when I sleep, why are you so surprised?"
Gu Ning squinted his eyes and looked at him for a long time. Seeing that he didn't make any other movements, he turned around and turned off the light.
"Hey, that's right, early to bed and early to rise means good health, good health -"
“Li Xuewu——!”
Gu Ning wanted to bite him. As soon as she turned off the lights, he slipped into her bed!
"Shh - don't wake the child. It will be hard to comfort him if he wakes up!"
Li Xuewu also kindly reminded her: "Sleep well, you have to go to work tomorrow, you have to get up at night, and you will be busy in the morning."
Gu Ning’s teeth were about to break. How could she believe this bad guy?
Whatever he said is what it is?
He says he wants to sleep well, but what is he doing with his hands?
"I'll count to three, Li Xuewu"
Gu Ning lay there, pulled the corner of his mouth and said, "One... um - Li..."
Forget it, all her math studies as a college student were in vain. She couldn’t even count to three such simple numbers. She stopped at one.
……
Li Ning woke up in the middle of the night to eat. When Gu Ning got up to feed the child, she was thinking about what Li Xuewu said at that time in the evening?
Does it mean getting up at night to help her feed the baby, does it mean sleeping well, does it mean getting up in the morning to help her clean up.
Not to mention what happened in the morning, let’s look at these two things he did in the evening. He didn’t do any of them.
Looking at the bad guy sleeping soundly on the bed, Gu Ning held the child and fed him while walking to the bedside and slapping him on the butt.
Bang!
"what happened?"
When Qin Jingru came in the morning, Li Xuewu and his wife had already gotten up.
Li Shu had finished washing her face and was sitting on the sofa rinsing her mouth. She knew she would go to her grandmother's house with her father today, so she wore clothes for going out.
Li Xuewu told her that if she got her clothes dirty because of mischief in the morning, she would not be able to go to her grandmother's house.
So Li Shu looked at the flower pot, the sand pit, the toys that Uncle Ji had sent her yesterday, and finally looked at her clothes and yawned again.
"Dad, can I take my toys to grandma's house? I want to play--"
“Yes, but you can only take one.”
Li Xuewu was helping Gu Ning pack up her work stuff, including a white coat, stethoscope, pencils, pens and other trivial items.
Gu Ning had found and prepared these things a few days ago, but she was afraid that something would be left out or not organized properly, so she thought of going through them one last time in the morning.
Li Xuewu promised her three things last night. If he couldn't do the last thing, he would never be able to open the door again.
So the first thing he did when he woke up in the morning was to comb his daughter's hair, wash her face, change her clothes, put on her socks, and also clean himself up at the same time.
I told my daughter to play well on the sofa and wait for my aunt to come and make breakfast, and then go to grandma's house after eating together.
Then he took out the bag of things that Gu Ning had prepared and put it on the table.
After Gu Ning had finished packing the child upstairs, he took the initiative to pick up the child, asked Gu Ning to wash and change clothes, and was as well-behaved as possible. He even gave Gu Ning a sweet smile when he took the child.
Gu Ning was too lazy to pay attention to him and quickly went about his own business.
By the time Qin Jingru and her husband arrived, the two children had been prepared.
Qin Jingru came early on purpose, fearing that Gu Ning would be busy at work today.
What is rare is that Li Xuewu actually took the initiative to help and even took care of the two children.
It’s not that Li Xuewu doesn’t help at home or doesn’t help at all.
Gu Ning is not working and she is living here during this period, so she basically has no need for Li Xuewu.
So when she saw Li Xuewu coaxing the child to play downstairs, she laughed out loud in surprise.
Han Jiankun also smiled, took a toy for Li Shu, and took the child from Li Xuewu.
He was lucky enough to have managed to take care of all the children in Li Xuewu's family, both the big and the small.
Li Xuewu handed the child to him and went to help Gu Ning. Whenever his wife mentioned something, he helped find it. After they were all arranged, they put them all into the bag.
You see that all doctors wear the same white coats, but in fact, each one is different.
Gay men may still mix clothes together, but lesbians are very careful and will not wear other people's clothes.
Including the white hats, they are all distributed to individuals as a set, and you have to maintain and maintain them yourself.
If you feel that the white coats provided by the hospital are not enough, you can also buy fabric and cut and make them yourself, as long as they meet the standards.
Of course, those who do this are usually senior doctors who are rich and don't care about having an extra piece of work clothes.
Gu Ning has three white coats for easy changing. She is a bit of a clean freak and will change them whenever they are a little dirty.
The stethoscope is not used by everyone. It is issued to doctors by the hospital and is kept, maintained and used by the doctors.
When Gu Ning came back from the hospital after taking leave, he brought all these things, including office supplies, back with him.
She also took home some things that Mu Hongyan left for her when he left.
Now that I have to go back to work, I naturally have to pack everything up and take it back.
Qin Jingru was busy working, and seeing that Gu Ning was not in a good mood towards Li Xuewu, she smiled and asked secretly.
Li Xuewu rolled his eyes and whispered, "You despise me because I'm clumsy and can't do anything."
“Isn’t this good?”
Qin Jingru raised her eyebrows. She was already surprised that Li Xuewu could help with housework. Now she was busy running around, so she was naturally satisfied.
She glanced at Gu Ning and shook her head in amusement, perhaps because she felt that Sister Ning's request was too high. Brother Li had already done so much for her, so why couldn't he just give her a smile?
Well, Gu Ning really wanted to give him a smile.
While eating, seeing Li Xuewu picking up dishes and placing them on the table, Gu Ning glared at him, as a response to his apologetic hospitality throughout the morning.
It’s good to have a response, it’s good to have a response.
Li Xuewu was afraid that she would be sulking, so it was better for the couple to play around and tease her out.
"I'm going to Tianjin on a business trip next Friday."
Li Xuewu instructed Gu Ning and Qin Jingru: "Prepare in advance. I will send Li Shu to her grandmother's house on Friday, and then pick her up when I come back on Sunday."
"Isn't this early?"
Qin Jingru raised her head and counted the days, and said, "One week. I've been living here recently. You go about your business. Just call home if you have anything."
"Well, let me know in advance so that I don't have trouble arranging it. I'll try to let you know in advance if I have more business trips in the future."
He helped Li Shu add some more rice porridge and said to Gu Ning: "Report this to the hospital. You have a child here, so try not to work the night shift."
"Oh, I see"
Gu Ning responded while eating, then looked up at Li Xuewu and said, "Remember to bring some things over to Teacher Wu."
"I've thought about it. I'll ask someone to arrange it next week. It's still early now."
Li Xuewu nodded and said, "Her situation may be similar to yours. It is inconvenient for her to take care of the children when she is busy with business."
With Qin Jingru and her husband around, she didn't ask much about Li Xuewu's affairs.
Even when the couple was at home alone, she would rarely ask about these things.
If Li Xuewu was willing to talk, she would listen. If he didn't say anything, she would not listen even if Yu Li and others came to her house to report on their work.
She could still rest assured about Teacher Wu. The key was that with her elder sister-in-law and elder brother around, Li Xuewu would definitely not be vague about serious matters.
As for what Teacher Wu was arranged to do in Tianjin, what business he was managing, and who he was trying to deceive by creating an ambiguous relationship with the other party, she didn't want to ask.
He has his job, his career, his friends and plans, and given his personality, he will never suffer any loss.
If they really expect her to take care of everything, the couple might not be able to get along so harmoniously.
She is a doctor. All she has to do is do her job well, take care of her family, and ensure that her life is happy and fulfilling.
The more she worries, the more tired she is. She is very clear about her abilities. She cannot manage Li Xuewu at all, let alone Li Xuewu's career.
Therefore, she never asked what Li Xuewu was going to do, and at most she would just remind him that safety was the most important.
When I heard him say that he was going to Tianjin, I mentioned Teacher Wu because I knew about it.
Her suggestion can be considered as an explanation to Li Xuewu and Teacher Wu.
After all, she knew about this relationship and plan. If she really turned a blind eye, Teacher Wu would be very embarrassed.
When Li Xuewu went to Tianjin to bring something, he had to say that she had asked him to bring it. Both parties understood this tacitly and both of them could save face.
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The morning was like a battle, but finally everything was cleaned up.
Gu Ning went to work, and Li Xuewu took Li Shu to the courtyard first, and then went to the factory.
Because I had to make a detour, I came out earlier than usual.
Qin Jingru and the child were the only ones left at home.
Fortunately, the child is still young and can fall asleep or play after being coaxed.
She had time to do the housework and even more time to prepare dinner and lunch.
Gu Ning decided to come back to eat and feed the child at the same time, trying her best to ensure that the child was not hungry and not let Qin Jingru run to the hospital with the child.
The meningococcal virus is rampant now, and children have weak resistance, so I’m really afraid something might happen to them.
Li Xuewu and Gu Ning were not overly worried about Qin Jingru taking care of the children alone. Firstly, they had trusted each other over the years, and secondly, Qin Jingru was already taking care of several younger brothers and sisters at home.
"Yohoo! Li Shu is back!"
Li Xuewu had just carried his daughter into the yard when he saw Sha Zhu walking out.
"Going to work so early? That's rare!"
"Stop talking nonsense, I always abide by the rules!"
Sha Zhu smiled and stretched his neck, teasing Li Shu, "Call me uncle!"
"uncle--!"
Li Shu was good at making fun of people and knew who he was a long time ago. Her grandmother also taught her how to call him when she was coaxing her.
So when Shazhu teased her, she called for help in a baby voice.
This rule may not only exist in Beijing. According to the old lady, this is also how children are taught in Northeast China.
When you go out to play, you should call people you know by their given names. You should take the initiative to greet the younger ones and keep talking.
Even the naughty boys in the alley would come home from school and see an old man sitting at the door. Even if they were not from the same courtyard but he knew them, he would call him "Grandpa" when passing by.
When we walk in the alley, we call our father's friends and colleagues of our parents "uncle". This is called politeness and etiquette.
Watch and see if any child in the alley sees someone and walks past them with his head down without saying a word, you will definitely find someone telling people about it.
Of course, no matter how old you are, you won’t compete with your children, and it’s another matter of greeting.
But they will ask who you are from, and then they will get the impression that your parents don't know how to teach their children.
What I say now is not a big deal, neither light nor heavy, but when you get into trouble, just wait and see.
People don't say anything. From the fact that you didn't say hello to people when you met them as a child, it can be deduced to the root cause of your mistakes.
Of course, if you become successful, people will no longer mention this matter. They will just think that you were smart and shy when you were a child and treat it as a joke.
People always say that the child of so-and-so is smart since childhood and looks like he or she can become a cadre.
Well, if he can see so accurately, why doesn’t he show it to his own children?
They are all found later, they are all hindsight, they are all nice words, and they are all said for you to hear.
So, I don’t know what the customs are in the South, but children in the North cannot be unable to speak.
If you meet children from Tianjin, they will be more cute and even make jokes.
Of course, all children are good children, which depends on their parents' education and the environment in which they grow up.
If this child does not meet good people, good neighbors, and good neighborhoods, he will easily be influenced.
You see some adults being shameless, teasing children without any restraint and saying whatever they want.
What does your father do, what does your mother do, what do your father and your mother do at home at night.
He felt that the questions he asked were just a bunch of people standing together and teasing a child.
If they heard children talking about adults at home without restraint, they would burst into laughter.
They treated this as a joke, completely ignoring the fact that the children didn't understand anything and thought it was a good thing.
When the adults are not around, they treat the child like a fool and tell him hilarious and embarrassing things.
The child will remember this for some time to come and tell others anything that happens at home.
If the parents had taken control in time, spanked the child twice, and told the child that these things cannot be said, it would be okay.
If we can't control this child, he will be useless in the future. How old will he be before he realizes this?
Has his family's reputation and image been ruined by these jokes?
Looking back at this child, he will grow up one day and understand things one day.
By then he will definitely remember that people used to tease him about family matters and took it as a joke.
As he gets older, some people still bring up this past event as a joke.
They thought it was a joke, but now it was a wound in the child's heart.
Any more jokes would be like rubbing salt into the wound.
Be sensible and self-reliant, achieve success by improving yourself, and make those people shut up.
But how many children like this can there be?
Most of the time they use the same means to retaliate against the next generation by becoming the kind of people they hate.
Copy these behaviors and give everyone new jokes.
Some could not resist being teased, and when they grew up and realized what was happening, they would pick up a knife and kill the person being teased again.
It's just a past event in memory, a tragedy that started as a joke. Just because I lived in vain for more than thirty years and grew a mouth, I lost my life.
Even if the child went to court and was interrogated, he would explain what happened.
Everyone who interrogated him would say that he deserved to die and it was a pity for the child.
Such a child has already embarked on a path of no return and cannot be saved. He has decided to use violence to resist this teasing, which stems from the deep-rooted hatred from childhood.
How to solve it, how to relieve their pain.
You can go far away.
Success, yes.
It’s okay to just go with the flow.
The only thing that no one wants to see, but the phenomenon that still exists is that some people are still teasing children for their own selfish reasons and for temporary jokes.
Bang Geng, a boy from the compound, lost his father at a young age. Does he want a woman to be the head of the family? Does he want his mother to live and work in that way?
You think he is a child, but he hears the gossip of neighbors and understands it all.
The fact that he didn't tell his family just shows that he understood the meaning and could see what his mother was doing.
What made him feel inferior was not his mother and family, but his own young age and inability to change anything.
I believe everyone can agree on one thing, that is, people are born innocent and all children are good children, it’s just that the educational environment is problematic.
The Western idea that people are born sinful is the core of their belief and that one can atone for their sins with money, time, etc. is pure ignorance and idealism.
Most of the reasons why the stem of a stick grows crooked are that it does not have good neighbors.
If there really is a case of theft, either take him to talk to his parents.
I don't ask the other party to return any compensation, I just ask them to educate the child well and don't let him grow up in a wrong way.
Sensible parents will naturally tell their children that stealing is wrong and taking other people’s things is also wrong.
Next time, this child will never dare to steal other people’s things, let alone make mistakes easily.
Look at Banggeng's previous environment. He stole Shazhu's food, but Shazhu just teased him and thought it was fun. What a naughty boy.
Look at Jia Zhangshi and Qin Huairu, who, because of their stuttering and lack of knowledge, actually wanted to indulge themselves in bad habits and continue to do such things.
In such an environment, if the child grows up to be a good child, then God is really blind.
Why does this kid act a little more human now?
Because he was afraid and knew that if he dared to do something wrong, someone would really punish him.
In addition, his family's conditions had improved, his mother had become a factory cadre, and the family had no shortage of food and daily necessities, so how could he steal?
If the warehouse is solid, you will know etiquette; if you have enough food and clothing, you will know honor and disgrace.
The children grew up and knew what was right and wrong. Jia Zhang and Qin Huairu also gained experience and knew how to live with dignity and how to educate their children.
Look at Sha Zhu, he has his own child and knows what to do to be good for his child.
If you ask him to tease Li Shu like he did before, he won't be willing to do so, and Li Xuewu is even less willing.
Raising a child is not easy, and educating a child is even more difficult.
If there really were bad guys who threatened his child's growth environment, Li Xuewu would not do something like Meng's mother moved three times.
He is still good at moving others!
(End of this chapter)